WORKSHOP DESCRIPTION:
This workshop will differentiate the collapse of father idealization in those with pre-Oedipal mother deprivation from those who have internalized a sufficient nurturance and psychic structuralization in the preoedipal years, and consequently are able to emotionally process a gradual experience of father disillusionment.
The gaze of the father, as spoken of by the Jungian theorist Susan Schwartz (in her paper on “The Gaze of the Father”) and by Susan Kavaler-Adler, particularly in her study of Emily Dickinson, will be seen to provide a compensatory defensive operation for those with preoedipal psychic arrest. In contrast, those who have adequately navigated through separation-individuation, and have reached the oedipal stage, will be seen to undergo a later level separation-individuation process with the oedipal father that opens up the grief and mourning of father disillusionment.
Among the many clinical studies with this later developmental journey is Dr. Kavaler-Adler’s article “From Benign Mirror to Demon Lover: An Object Relations View of Compulsion Versus Desire” (in the American Journal of Psychoanalysis, which is now is a chapter in her book on Developmental Mourning, Erotic Transference, and Object Relations Psychoanalysis.
Other psychobiographical writings by Susan Kavaler-Adler, on this gradual process of father disillusionment, include her studies on Charlotte Bronte (in The Compulsion to Create: Women Writers and Their Demon Lovers) and on Suzanne Farrell (and her highly emotional platonic drama with George Ballanchine, in The Creative Mystique: From Red Shoes Frenzy to Love and Creativity).
In the chapter entitled “The Father’s Role in the Self Development of His Daughter” (in 1988 book by Offerman-Zuckerberg, Ed., Critical Psychophysical Passages in the Life of a Woman: A Psychodynamic Perspective), Dr. Kavaler-Adler opened the door to understanding how the father’s penetration into a daughter’s psychological development is profound throughout all the years of her child and adolescent development. Clinical work shows that those lacking the father’s support suffer different kinds of personality issues, depending on when the loss of the father takes place. So, even many female patients have had affectionate fathers, these fathers often deserted them when these women reached puberty, possibly because the growing daughters intimidated the fathers with their new female sex and gender attributes.
These themes will be discussed in the morning lecture part of this workshop.
In the afternoon, Dr. Kavaler-Adler will offer a guided psychic visualization, and the participants will be able to share their experiences of visualizations with their internal fathers during the group discussion.