SEMINAR DESCRIPTION:
Who is good and who is bad? Every communication in the family of the scapegoat is about who is to blame, and the self-righteous scapegoater suffers from the same developmental arrest as the scapegoat. Nobody can be good without the other being bad. Primal level splitting perpetually operates in the mind of the scapegoat and of the scapegoating person.
There is no ego capacity to control, channel, or modify aggression, and the internal threat is perpetual. The threat of internal rage exploding has to be turned inward. Anger is a crime, and there is no developmental capacity for self-assertion. What may seem like guilt is persecutory anxiety of the most profound kind. The external atmosphere of accusation and blame is internalized in the scapegoat, and placating the persecutory scapegoater, who is also filled with a fallacious moral superiority at the moment of accusation, is psychologically a matter of life versus death survival. Annihilation terror haunts the internal world of the scapegoated child victim, who is doomed to turn all dissociated rage against the weak and undeveloped child self within.
The “moral defense” of Ronald Fairbairn may be used by the scapegoated victim to justify the ongoing abuse of the scapegoater. The scapegoat gives justification to the abuser’s baiting accusations. The scapegoat buys into the bullying accusations, while being continually baited to placate the other, or to have a defensive denial that can be mocked by the arrogant and self-righteous scapegoater. Shame and humiliation are the daily faire, and inside the body of the scapegoat is the tension and rage of self-attack, and the wound of perpetual narcissistic injury. Wilfred Bion’s “attacks on linking” may be taking place in one’s mind, so that any coherent perception of what is going on in the world of external/internal attack (anti-libidinal, anti-dependent self) and devastation and despair (libidinal, dependent self) is chopped up into bits.
Dr. Kavaler-Adler will be lecturing on both the Scapegoat Complex and on the more pervasive psychodynamic of Internal Scapegoating. From an Object Relations perspective, the Scapegoat Complex involves developmental arrest, and the accompanying dissociation and projective identification. Inside the scapegoat is the scapegoater, and inside the scapegoater is the arrested child scapegoat–underneath the self-righteous and contemptuous attitude.
From the Jungian perspective (Sylvia Perera, 1932), the Scapegoat Complex constellates in the unconscious psyche through a “collective unconscious” archetype. The road to recovery can be described in Object Relations developmental terms.
Dr. Kavaler-Adler will speak about her theory of Developmental Mourning (see latest book Developmental Mourning, Erotic Transference, and Object Relations Psychoanalysis, 2022), and the “abandonment depression” theory of James Masterson.
The afternoon portion of the workshop will invite participants into a meditative psychic visualization to experience and share an internal dialogue around the dynamics of scapegoating.